Posts Tagged ‘motivation’

Work it – How to prevent burnout

So now that spring is almost here, it’s usual the time that we re-evaluate our fitness goals and talk about motivation. Many sites and magazines talk about getting excited to exercise and how we can stay at it and go, go, GO! But you rarely hear about burnout — you know, that overwhelming feeling that can put any exercise program to a halt. Burnout is a sneaky little monster! It can creep up seemingly fast, but the truth is, it doesn’t happen overnight. There are some tell-tale signs to watch out for to make sure it doesn’t happen to you.

Like most things, burnout happens in stages, so it’s important to recognize the signs along the way.

STAGE ONE: CLOUD NINE

Classic sign: you want to look good in that swimsuit you just bought, so you never miss a workout.

Banish burnout: Less can actually be more. See, burnout happens when you expect too much too soon. Balance your excitement with the big picture! Even with the smartest, most effective workout program, you still can’t force your body to become stronger or slimmer any faster than it physiologically can. So start small. It’s better to do too little in the beginning than too much — the last thing you want to do is mess with your limits and push your ability to recover mentally or physically.

STAGE TWO: IMPATIENCE (aka REALITY CHECK)

Classic sign: Do you get easily discouraged when you don’t see results right away? Do you stop looking forward to gym time and start skipping workouts? DON’T.

Banish burnout: Set mini goals. The main reason people stop an exercise program is that they feel so far from their high-set goals! Try setting short-term goals that focus on the process (like time spent exercising) are more likely to boost your confidence and keep you on track than long-term outcome goals (say, total number of pounds lost).

STAGE THREE: EXCUSES

Classic sign: With boredom and apathy setting in, you’ll use almost anything — work, family, stress, the weather — as an excuse to skip exercise.

Banish Burnout: Change it up! Use a different piece of cardio equipment or work out in a different part of the gym. Sick of the gym? Take it outside! Icky weather? Fitness DVDs! Always give your body something new so that it never has a chance to adapt.

STAGE FOUR: SURRENDER

Classic sign: You are already saying “there’s always next year”

Banish Burnout: Put away that white flag! do NOT surrender! Remind yourself of the reasons you started this routine in the first place. Re-commit and make a schedule. Stick to it for at least five weeks (the KEY time-frame to get habits to stick!). Try making a date — with a trainer, your guy, or your best friend. You’re more likely to stay on track when someone is holding you accountable.

Now that you know the stages, they’ll be easier to avoid — hang in there, you can do it!

hang in there!

How do YOU prevent burnout?

In the news: yet another reason why you need to take it easy every once in awhile — Too much exercise can lead to overuse injuries

Try it – How to ask for a raise/promotion

Good morning, everyone! I’ve receieved a few emails on today’s topic and have been conducting a fair amount of research to offer my best advice. The million dollar question: How do you ask for a raise/promotion?

While I can’t tell you if you are ready for or deserving of the promotion/raise (I’ll trust your judgment!), I can give a few pointers on how to ASK.

Step one: PREP

Whatever you do, DO NOT go to your employer with nothing prepared. Documentation of your achievements will help you to show that you’ve been a valuable asset to the company. This is also a good little reminder that you should be tracking these achievements throughout the year (so you don’t have to scramble at a time like this!). Make copies of your last reviews and make notes on company improvements that you have implemented while in your current position. Have sales grown as a result of your work? Have you heightened employee morale? Point these things out. This is not the time to be modest — you need to toot your own horn.

Check your attitude

How are you perceived around the office? Are you viewed by both management and coworkers as a positive thinking individual? If you’d like to move into the management level your attitude is crucial. People take direction and are more inclined to work hard for a boss that is upbeat and encouraging. Try and be the person that YOU would want to work with/for.

Research

Do not underestimate the value of information! Here is what you need to find out NOW:

  • Employer’s pay practices. If the standard practice is to offer salary increases once a year after an annual review, you are unlikely to receive a raise at any other time. If your company offers more frequent increases, you’ll have more luck asking for a pay raise. Listen to your employer. If the employer announces that the pay raises will be four percent across the board, you are unlikely to negotiate more money.
  • Market pay rates for your job. Take advantage of the fact that almost anything is accessible nowadays via the internet. Check out some salary calculators — although don’t take them too seriously, as they rarely reflect your local market conditions including the number of open positions in your area. If you are already paid above your market pay rate, negotiating a pay raise can be difficult.
  • Employee handbook policy. The handbook may present the process whereby pay raises are granted. If a policy or a process exists, your best bet when asking for a pay raise, is to follow the process exactly.

Now that you are armed and ready…

Make an appointment with your boss.

Do NOT ambush him/her.  If your supervisor is unprepared to discuss an increase with you, nothing will happen at the meeting. Your boss will also want to do some research with the Human Resources staff and industry sources.

Make your case

Be straightforward in addressing your request for a pay raise to your supervisor. Be ready to explain why you deserve the promotion, as well as what you hope to achieve in the new position. Have a few solid ideas for company growth and improvements, and be prepared to explain how you would go about putting these improvements into action.

Outline the steps you have taken to ready yourself for the responsibilities of the new position. If you have taken any classes or attended work-related seminars since your last promotion, be sure to mention them. Again, this is NOT the time to be modest or passive, you need to be confident and assertive in your ideas.

Mindset: hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst.

If you are denied the promotion, politely ask for a reason, if one is not automatically offered. Inquire as to what you can do to put yourself in contention for a promotion in the future, and make a commitment to take the necessary steps to advance your career. Sometimes, even deserving candidates are not promoted because they have reached the highest point possible at their company. If this is the case, you may have to apply at a larger company/firm in order to take your career to the next level.

Keep it classy

No matter what the outcome of your meeting may be, be sure to extend your hand for a handshake and thank your boss for the opportunity to talk. Even if the meeting didn’t result in a promotion for you at this time, you want to leave your boss with a good impression–you need to be professional and even-tempered. If you did get the promotion (good for you!), ask to set up a time to work out the details, if they haven’t been fully discussed.

GOODLUCK climbing that ladder!

Additional suggested reading: How to ask for a raise when times are tough

Have you recently been in this situation? How did it go? Any tips to share?

What’s going on in the world of fitness?

Good morning, friends!

I apologize for not posting last night, the Mister and I have been dealing with a lot of “stuff” that I’m not ready to discuss on the blog (don’t worry, it’s all good!). Needless to say, I was (am!) mentally exhausted. That, coupled with the fact that I was playing kickball for three hours on Monday (didn’t get home till 12:30 am!), makes for a very tired Shannon.

Of course everything at work is only getting CRAZIER, so you’ll have another uninsightful post from me this morning. However, you all seem to enjoy my link round-ups, and I do put a lot of thought into compiling them. So at least you all get to benefit from my crazy schedule ;)

So, what’s going on in the world of fitness?

Are your kids (or you!) struggling in math? Have them run a lap before they do their homework! – Study shows that physical fitness is associated with academic performance in young people

Were you born to run? Study finds that variations in one gene may be associated with endurance running. I’m guessing I don’t have that gene ;)

Is Bicycling Bad for Your Bones? I sure hope not! I cannot WAIT to ride MY BIKE!

Low on time? Find out if you can get fit in six minutes a week.

If you have been wanting to give skiing a try, you have to read this: How to Overcome Fear on the Slopes

We all know shoveling snow can be a great workout, but make sure you protect your back and heart!

I promise I’ll see ya’ll later for the Daily Delish!

Have you read anything interesting this week that’s fitness related? Please share with all of us!

Thankful Thursday

Happy Thankful Thursday!

Let’s close our eyes, step away from our “to-do-lists” and take a moment and think about what we are thankful for this week.

I’ll kick it off. This week I’m thankful for…

the sunshine, even in its scarceness

good books (recently finished Goldengrove, Belong to me and now reading on mystic lake.)

big ideas and how quickly they inspire

yummy flavor combinations

the extra sleep the Mister and I have been getting by going to bed early (makes all the difference!)

dry shampoo — cuz sometimes a morning shower just isn’t gonna happen

my family — and the fact that my grandma is OK after her emergency hospital visit this week ;(

SPRING – and that it is JUST sround the corner — can you feel it?

my city, Cleveland, and that we’re all giving the middle finger to Forbes

What are you grateful for this week? Why should you be giving thanks?

Thankful Thursday

Good morning, everyone!

Happy Thursday! To those of you who are new to the blog (take a moment to read a bit more about me), each Thursday we reflect back on our weeks and call the good times and cherished moments to the forefront. These things can be as small as being thankful for a kind stranger or as big as getting a new job! I encourage all of you to take a few minutes to recognize everything you might have otherwise overlooked this week.

Sometimes I dive deep into one particular topic or item, and other times I make a list. Today feel like a day for a list, doesn’t it?

This week, I am thankful for…

My Valentine, and the simple fact that we don’t need a special day to celebrate our love (even though it’s nice!)

The tweeps who got my back yesterday with the twoll (twitter troll)

The movie Enchanted – because it started my week off brilliantly – you must watch this! Kinda cheesy, but perfect in every way.

My new Williams Sonoma All-Clad Stainless Steel Fry-pan and Sauteuse my mom got me for V-day! This will make all my cooking at home a lot more fun!

A new episode of Grey’s Anatomy tonight!

All of you! My amazing readers who engage in the conversation and the bloggers who make me so proud to be part of the online community <3

The energy I managed to muster up every morning this week at 5:30 A.M., when I headed to the gym (in the bitter cold!)

The sunshine I see peeking through the clouds this morning

What are you thankful for this week?

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